Can some one calm me down, doctor visit tommorow?

Question

So last july of 2012 I did something sexual for the first time in my life. Never in life had I done anything before. I am a guy guy. I am 20 now, I was 19 when it happened. So what I did was receive oral sex. I havent done anything after that. I am not very sexual. Well after that I started to notice skin problems. AND I PANICED. I went mental after that. I never truly was the same. I went crazy with the thought that i might have HIV. That I could have gotten HIV that way. From my first experience. I had met a guy at a party and well I was stupid and things happened. Point is i went mentally insane after that. All I could think of was that I could have HIV. So life passed me by I dropped out of school and lost my job because I would never go. I kept thinking and thinking how my life could be over but didn't want to take the HIV test. Finally last month, on january, I worked up the courage to go to the doctor and asked to take the HIV test and my exposure, the doctor said that hiv isn't passed that way only unprotected anal/vaginal sex. I still took the test. The oraquick and it was negative. Thank god. I went home and began to live life again. But my skin problems continued. I am now worried the test could have been a false negative.. and suddenly all the hiv fears are coming back. Also I will go to another doctor and will have to explain SO MUCH to the doctor. I am so afraid, I don't know what these skin problems could be..

can someone give me feed back and help me cope

Answer 1

Seriously u need to calm down or this will effect your life! N u will be missing our jn things while worrying abt this !! I understand we're u r coming from after exposing your self as the worry never guess away as u punish your self that u have been soooo stupid! I've done it my self n it's not a nice feeling! But h need to get ur result n put this to bed fir good!! N start living regardless to the test result!! Yes u will probley be fine !!! N it's probley ur anxiety rather than the HIV ! But if fir some millllion to 1 chance u do have HIV then face up to it... Get ur self educated .... Healthy living and medication ... Some counselling n help from family n friends !!



Above all get out !! Start by doing something small each day maybe a 20 min walk to beach or park .... If u like coffee etc try a new coffee place each week ... If u like reading try gonng the lib every week ... See ya friends n family a but more .... Start a new hobbie no matter his small or a new skill ??



Educate on healthy eating find out what foods r good fir the immune system and well bring as eating crap and not drinking enough water can make u feel down n dehydrated etc which will lower your mood and increase anxiety



Take care u will be fine xxx😉

Answer 2

Your skin problems could be caused by your anxiety. It can send your hormones into overdrive and cause all sorts of issues. Or it could be as simple as you're allergic to a soap or lotion you're using. Talk to your doctor but you will be fine.

Answer 3

you're no longer by myself in the way you experience, as many are in the comparable boat. Going to the dentist/wellness practitioner may be costly yet that should not be a attention whilst it consists of having a healthy physique, alongside with a healthy mouth. The longer you place off seeing the wellness practitioner & the dentist, the harder it rather is to bypass, as quickly as you have a situation. prevalent journeys to the wellness practitioner & dentist are so important. many cases, issues are stumbled on & may be effectively taken care of because of the fact they have been caught early sufficient. i do no longer likely take excitement in going to the dentist yet I tension myself to bypass & once I get there, confident, i'm slightly fearful. as quickly as i'm in the chair, i'm ok. I oftentimes save some thing in my palms to relax me. i understand that if I placed off going to the dentist, it rather is going to finally end up inflicting me to ought to make greater appointments because of the fact my the teeth weren't a precedence & they must have been. As for seeing the wellness practitioner, I have not any concern of seeing him. women choose each year physicals & specific gynecological checks finished each year. you in basic terms ought to make up your concepts that your physique is your temple & you ought to shield it, no count what you ought to do. If it enables, ask a buddy to bypass with you to be certain the wellness practitioner or dentist. It does help to have that further help. it rather is totally properly to have that type of help. shield your self, in case you do no longer, who will?